Memory is reconstructive, not a recording
Human memory does not work like a video file that can be located and replayed. Recollection is
reconstructive: each time something is recalled it is assembled again, and it can be
influenced by mood, expectation, subsequent information, and by how a question is asked.
This is true of ordinary memory, in ordinary circumstances, without anyone intending it.
A state of focused attention and heightened suggestibility does not improve that situation.
It can increase confidence in a recollection without increasing its accuracy — which is a
particularly unhelpful combination, because confidence is what people use to judge whether a
memory is real.
What this means in practice
Hypnosis should not be presented as a method for accurately recovering forgotten memories,
and memory recovery is not something to pursue as a therapeutic goal. The potential
consequences of doing so include distress, damaged relationships, and confident belief in
events that may not have occurred as recalled.
Stated clearly
No claim is made on this website that hypnosis can accurately uncover forgotten memories.
Memory recovery is not encouraged, and it is not offered as a service.
What can be worked with instead
Useful work does not depend on establishing what happened. It can focus on how you are
affected now, on the responses you have noticed, on comfort and settling, and on goals you
have chosen — none of which require a reconstructed account of the past.
Many people find this a relief. It removes the pressure to produce a coherent story before
anything can be addressed.
Uncertain memories
If you have partial or uncertain recollections that concern you, that is worth discussing
with an appropriately qualified mental health professional rather than attempting to
resolve through hypnosis.